RFA Talk > The spiritual life is not a theory

The principles of the 12 Steps must be practiced, I have to live them. And my Higher Power can't be a theory, either. When difficulties arise, HP must be a real living, loving god I can feel and experience and really lean on. Nothing else will keep me from going back to addictive substances.

I can't be grateful enough for these Steps, this food plan, the whole program and all of you for helping me develop a faith that works. Thank you.
Love,
Kasey

January 8, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterKasey in Atlanta

Kasey--

A faith that works--that says a lot to me. For years it didn't work for me, and I don't think I had faith. Well, I did have faith from seeing others around me that it was possible to be abstinent and happy and have some peace. And I assumed from whqt they said that they were once like me, though it seemed kind of hard to believe. I mean, they were up there and I was way down here. But I couldn't think of a reason they had to lie to me about it. I heard about people working steps and about the importance of discipline--of being teachable, but it didn't make logical sense to me so I resisted and put off and just refused, I guess. Once beaten into submission once again wtih the food, I became willing and open-minded to trying another way. The result has been that I have a faith that works a lot of the time though it requires my action beneath it as well as my asking. When I don't do my part, I don't get access to Power. Being humble enough to say "uncle" is a great first step for me--then I remember, oh yeah, there is a Power greater than myself that can restore me to sanity. Perhaps I should seek that Power. Then I get results which often are not what I planned but certainly what I needed. Thank heavens! That's what I wanted to happen in the first place.

Thanks for the reminder!

Steve in Atlanta

January 9, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterSteve in Georgia

You guys always keep me inspired. I'm so grateful for our little RFAers in Hotlanta.

Susan

February 9, 2012 | Unregistered CommenterSusan in Atlanta

Thanks for the reminder.
For me unless I live my life according to theis principles my life is a mess, I can be abstinent and act as a dry drunk if I do not live by the AA principles

February 13, 2012 | Unregistered Commenterflori